A recent study found collegiate guys thinking about sex a median of 19 times a day (ranging from 1 to 388 times), and women thinking about sex a median of 10 times a day (range 1 to 140). How many times a day do you think about sex? What kind of thoughts? Is this good?

"Men who are too good-looking are never good in bed because they never had to be," opined relationship expert Carrie Bradshaw. True? Are not-so-hot men and women actually better in bed?

What's the best guide, manual, primer, tips book, website, magazine etc. for advice on getting it on? What will you call your book, and what will you advise the world?

How do you keep it hot long-term, say, for 5, 10 or 20-plus months or even years of monogamy?

Or to follow some recent Dan Savage columns, can playing with others help couples stay together long-term? How has that worked out for you or someone you know?

And speaking of Dan Savage, define GGG? Are you?

Facebook the music: Has social media facilitated your hook-ups? How?

What about the more obvious sites like bangmatch.com to facilitate your hookups?

The condition known as "transient global amnesia" can be triggered by sex. What's
been most mind-blowing for you — if you remember?

What's the best metro Detroit locale where you can legally have sex?

And the best metro Detroit locale where it ain't legal to have sex but you did anyway?

What's the strangest place you've ever had sex? How'd that go?

Best and worst things you've ever heard (or, fess up, said) at the point of orgasm?

Given these fantasy choices, who would you do and why:

Carolyn Clifford or Elizabeth Wertenberger? Calvin Johnson or Doug Fister? Selma Blair or Kristen Bell? Eminem or Kid Rock?

What do you know now about lust and sex that you wish you’d known before?

How do you keep sex safe? Do you??

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